Restaurants
Salumi (meat, meat, meat and go early and still stand in line but the sandwiches are worth it; only open Tues-Fri 11-4; you can buy cured meat online!)
Matt's in the Market (get a table that looks out over Market; pork sandwich is great)
Other Coast Cafe (east coast style sandwiches; Ballard and downtown)
Bakeman's (122 Cherry St near Pioneer Square; unfancy; classic sandwich cafeteria; cheap)
Mee Sum Pastry (in the Market; are humbow Chinese sandwiches? Good take-with-you food; cheap; get the baked ones)
13 Coins (overpriced and frequently surreal, but quintessential counter chic; there's one downtown off Denny and one across the street from the airport; open 24 hours)
El Puerco Lloron (Market Hillclimb; eat outside on a sunny day)
Canlis (fancy; from their web site: "At Canlis, you cannot be overdressed." Queen Anne)
Cafe Campagne (Market)
Etta's (Market)
Pink Door (good bar; we hung out here in college)
I hear Le Pichet on First near the Market is good
Lockspot (good if you're visiting Ballard Locks; old Ballard ambiance, if you can use that word for a place like this)
Added: Since I eat there so frequently, Shiro's; what a genius with fish he was until he retired; the place is still open and still serving good sushi and I'm still there once or twice a month; and Shiro sometimes shows up still on Friday nights (Belltown)
Bars
Comet Tavern (we used to drink Pilsner Urquel and smoke Lucky Strikes here in college; Capitol Hill)
Pink Door (we used to drink red wine and pick up boys here in college; Post Alley above Market)
Cyclops (funky bar that used to be a cafe on another street called Free Mars and I used to go there in college; I met the owner at Iona's pottery camp a couple weeks ago which made me reflect on how things have changed since college; Belltown)
The Local Vine (high design and great wine plus tiny delicious food; Belltown)
Music
I don't go to clubs any more but this is from my friend Ron, who is an expert on the subject. He made me go to shows back in the day. Most of the great music I've seen is because of him and my sister's fake ID.
These are the pages to bookmark:
KEXP events
KEXP calendar
Ballard is the most fun right now. The Tractor is the same as always (maybe a bit more diverse) and the Sunset is great for unbroken local bands. (Added by me: High Dive in Ballard too.)
The Comet has some good random shows lately too and good energy when there is a band playing. I also like the Rendezvous (but hate Belltown now). Both these places are unpredictable which gets them a star in my book.
Chop Suey will inevitably get the B-level bands that the Croc used to get. If you are into the newest thing and read popmatters or pitchfork you have to keep an eye on Chop Suey.
Neumos and The Showbox get the A-level people. Lots of sellouts.
Triple Door gets the has-beens and the occasional hipster show.
Thanks, Ron.
Movie theaters
Central Cinema (movies with drinks)
The Big Picture (cheesy but I love movie theaters that serve drinks)
I haven't to these theaters to since we moved back, but I used to love them:
Harvard Exit (Capitol Hill)
Egyptian (Capitol Hill)
Seven Gables Theater (University District)
Neptune (U District)
Attractions
Pike Place Market (touristy but I will always love it)
Seattle Center Fun Forest for kitschy rides (you might need kids to enjoy this; give the roller coaster a miss -- it hurts; available for a limited time only because they're gonna take it all away)
Central Library (Rem Koolhaas)
Parks
Waterfall Garden Park (this is really one of my favorite places; I should go there more often; 219 Second Avenue South)
Sound Garden (it was a park before it was a band; a trek from downtown and very limited hours; next to Warren G. Magnuson Park on Sand Point Way)
Seward Park (south of us on Lake Washington)
Discovery Park (sometimes my sister makes me run here and it's big; between Ballard and Magnolia; Ballard Locks are close by and worth seeing when the fish run and you can eat at the Lock Spot)
Arboretum (git your dose of dappled sunlight here; I have great memories of driving too fast through here to get to a college boyfriend's house)
Book stores
Elliott Bay Book Company (for ambiance and recommendations; Pioneer Square)
University Bookstore in the U District (has everything including art supplies)
Speaking of art supplies, Daniel Smith in SODO (south of downtown)
...and, OT but speaking of SODO, visit Urban Hardwoods (on Colorado Street; we bought our table there)
Seattle Mystery Bookshop (close to Pioneer Square and Bakeman's so go for lunch then buy a page turner)
Peter Miller Books for design and architecture books (First Avenue; it's full of itself but what can you do? Go buy books you'll never actually read anyway)
Fantagraphic Books in Georgetown (Georgetown is great but Fantagraphics is really great)
Shops
REI downtown (go for the retail experience but get your ski gear used at Alpine on Leary)
Archie McPhee (visit this geeks' paradise for all your novelties; Ballard)
The shop at SAM (for gifts; Second Ave)
...if you're at SAM visit DeMedici Ming if you like paper and there's this cool Asian store nearby that has beautiful, expensive things